I am on a Job Search. I have about 11 months to find another job, and I am hoping to find one sooner than that. I will keep everyone posted.
Today's rant is about a person that I do not consider to be a friend anymore - no identifiers here. This Person (TP) only calls when TP needs or wants something. The last time was to stay at my house for a month (I said no) and now it is to stay at my house for the weekend, while TP has something going on in town. TP does not live here anymore, but when TP did, I saw TP maybe 3 or 4 times in a year. TP was always spending time with TP's old significant other, doing what the other wanted. TP only called or wanted to hang out when the significant other was gone and TP was alone. TP has a new significant other, and it is all about that person now. When I told TP of my job search, TP suggested that I move in with the two of them so "I could save some money" - of course, since I would have one bedroom, I should pay HALF the rent. I said no.
I don't think TP is a bad person. I do think that TP and I have grown so significantly apart in too many ways to maintain a friendship. TP and I had it out last year, and I told TP that I was tired of being called only when TP wanted something. I am tired of feeling used. I know that the only person who can stop that is me, and I have had enough of it.
In news of knitterly things, I am nearly done with my second winter cardigan - the next thing is to block the sleeves and make it up. I am still working on making up the slouchy cardigan, and trying to figure out what to knit next.
I have started another round of SP9 (see the previous post!) I have not seen my spoilee's questionnaire yet, but hopefully I will get a sense of what she likes so I can start shopping for her! I am also dying to know what her colors are. I do know that she has cats and also likes to dye. I think I may send her a packet of kool-aid with some undyed yarn. I may find something for her at SAFF. I have already heard from my spoiler (Hi SP!) and our "group mom" Shelby.
I am also in the process of "downsizing" my life. Clothing that I have not worn in years is going, books, and THINGS. I live in a studio apartment, albeit a large one, and don't have enough room to put everything away. I just have too much stuff. I am de-stashing by using things up, sewing, and making things. I am debating whether or not to get rid of my stamps and paper stuff. I have not used them since I moved to this apartment last year. I have more paper, fabric, yarn and beads than I know what to do with. As I have said before, I have more craft stuff than time.